To echo on this, I'm long past the point where I've gotten enjoyment from the game or where I have had time to play between school, job applications, irl stuff, etc.
I only maintain a nation because it's slightly better to be a 100/100 farm to help the TKR community than to delete my nation altogether. It gives me an excuse to be on slack with all of the friends I've made over the past few years and a way in which I can contribute without having to spend time I don't have on the game. People can say whatever shit they want about my VMing every war since I "left" the game, but I think it speaks to the strength of our community that I preferred to stick around in some barebones capacity than just simply delete and leave. I didn't want to leave my community even if I didn't have the time or desire for PnW.
This is also a true for a few of our other nations who are perma-VMed and we keep them on the alliance as a testament to their previous service to our community. If you look through the names, these are folks like smith, deus, and legoboy. People who have truly left their mark on TKR and even on Orbis. By VMing, they get to stay a part of our community and contribute in slack/forums without wasting time they don't have to spare.
I'd simply ask for y'all to respect how we as a TKR community have decided to handle these situations. Our community is important to all of us, even to folks like me who are mostly checked out. I hope this also provides context on why the OP was so frustrating for many of us.