Aww, you silly! I didn't realize you misunderstood that the purpose of a game called politics and war is to get involved in politics and wars without throwing a temper tantrum about it. But hey, I'll help you out and show you to some games were you can just "chill and do [y]our own thing with [y]our friends" until you can grow a pair and handle it in here. Have fun!
https://www.clubpenguinisland.com/
http://www.poptropica.com/
https://www.wizard101.com/
https://www.webkinz.com/
https://moviestarplanet.fr/