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  1. 3 minutes ago, Velyni Vas said:

    If you read our statement on his removal and the DoE which shows our Charter, you'd see that it was not "illegitimate" and was well within the rights and was not a coup. There was even a screenshot on one of the news networks of Jaden saying that he was voted out. The members who voted are even on our statement. Every member of Council agreed to the removal, including his VP and our Advisor the President of IRON in CN.

    With that said, Jaden has been in our server and our relationship is healthy. He wanted to declare it on the OWF with his side - which we chose not to do, because micros tend to get shunned on here.

    Regardless of whether the rest of Orbis agrees or not - this Council made a decision that the issues we were having even after being discussed several times just wasn't worth it. Again, this was not a "coup," as our Charter is there for EVERYONE to read and he CHOSE to adapt a way for him to be voted out.

    Well yeah, you tend to get shunned because you didn't bother to read and process what was said, and focused on the words that made you upset.

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  2. Cool, so I'm going to dodge the IC stuff, because without being there the best I can assume is he said/she said, and I jump over to a word, hopefully of wisdom, for both the coupers and Jaden. 

     

    New leaders tend to struggle with communication, it's not at all an uncommon occurrence, even some of the major AA's leaders occasionally struggle with communication, it's par and course for the role, as it's generally the first time the player doesn't have to answer to someone, and has access to information that they can't always pass along.  So you're jumped from your casual life in Orbis into a role where you're both more free, and far more restricted in other senses, and it takes a while to get used to that.  Even beyond that, you're hoisted into a position where, you care about the success or failure of what you built, which is a heavy weight on its own.  Reading past this posts direct words, and Jadens frustration should show first hand how much he cared to see the AA succeed.

     

    Generally, if you address that to your leader when you notice it, it improves them as both a leader and a person.  That said, I don't think your coup was remotely in the benefit of the alliance, Jaden, or yourselves if you remotely care for the AA.  Stability is what allows young AAs to succeed, coups, especially once the former leader declares it illegitimate publicly like this, are the antithesis of stability and typically lead to downward paths, especially if the claim is 'lack of communication', because it shows that the situation hasn't improved, only the one at the helm changed, and is likely to lead to future coups or increased central power from paranoia of coups.  In the future, I would advise you to communicate better with your leader.

    Good luck though 👍

     

    Closing note: Thanks to everyone who checked in to make sure Jaden was okay ❤️

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  3. 8 minutes ago, Greene said:

    That said, just gotta ask the Chocolatiers: Want to walk me through how one of your heirs just threw their hands up in the air and took one cruise missile and three nukes. Folks with a memory know I have a penchant for bdsm jokes, but really, four missiles? Four. That's not even a joke anymore. That's rolling over and purring.

    You mean fairy, who's busy with finals?

    clarification: genuinely asking if that's who you mean

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  4. No, let me break it down for you.  I have not the time, nor care to take you serious enough to read more than a sentence from you until you're asking us for peace.

    You started an unprotected micro, which also got caught poaching before it even started, so no one wants to touch you because you've shown you're not capable of decency, then you were so shocked when it started getting raided due to lack of aforementioned protector.  Then in a fit you recognized hostility, and as even that's now backfiring on you, you're reaching the denial phase, which is still before the sue for peace phase, so your text walls will be ignored. 

    But, since I'm here, I'll give you some advice.  Sue for peace, disband, go actually learn how to run an alliance, make some friends, and try again with a protector.  Maybe you won't make the mistake of RoH'ing with a 2 man alliance, for a raid.

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  5. 1 hour ago, Firwof Kromwell said:

    We RoH'd cuz y'all:

    1. Spied us multiple times the days before.

    2. Declared more than Raid wars. 

    3. Salty, Spicy, and Sour interactions

    The fact The Order got involved, one of your guys treated allies, only ensures our RoH. It's also not our issue when you guys in Quack or Hedge nowadays, got to prove your dominance with (new) micro's, especially consisting people that you guys have grudges against. I don't understand why you guys can't just find ways to cope with your past and work things out with people instead. People like me and Duelie only hold grudges (which I know us people usually don't due to knowing how to cope) against people like y'all because you guys hold stuff against us from the past we have already moved over yonder.

    Then y'all ask yourselves "why do some people hate & make fun of us?"  Well, people do so to you guys cuz y'all are so double standard. Not every joke has to be light and fluffy, or a 1+1=🔍(Window)/2+2=22 humor. Then again, you guys can do dark humor amongst yourselves while saying some pretty twisted stuff to people outside of your groups, which you guys label as a joke and don't get in trouble for, even when people get offended. But the moment someone outside y'all's groups says something that is within that same context, it's heresy against to your kind.

    Next, is the fact you guys must assume actions to people you guys barely even know. Furthermore, judging based on those assumptions as well ones own knowledge. Then coming to a quick conclusion only to spread what is false information/rumors. Which a good example is when you guys don't agree with someone, you guys are quite harsh when someone doesn't agree. You guys go to the point of shunning and pushing away when it comes to something you guys take seriously. That's a toxic relationship if you ask me.

    When you're pushing the blame/issue off of you guys so it looks like you can almost never do wrong as well don't have many problems. Unfortunately, that only causes more issues by showing how truly sensitive and insecure one is by doing what I have already narrated. To avoid bad confrontation, one must embrace they're wrongs, only to be willing to work them out with knowledge coming in. Plus, building depth of understanding, so one can spread intel. Keep the cycle of knowledge and understanding expansion going.

     I can tell you guys try to be very hospitalic also reasonable, but you got to find different ways to cope with your problems in healthier ways. If you actually don't want us poking at you guys either, actually work with us. We're working against you guys cuz you guys worked against us in the first place based on what was explained above. If you want to work on your issues you got to be able to take take deep breaths, try to stay calm, try to be collective on what you're taking in. One's also gotta be willing to take that intel into depth, even express about ones interpretation. You can't let your thoughts and feelings cloud reasoning. The conversation can either go towards agreeing to disagree or finding middle ground, just got to do both in a healthy way.

    I also never said you can't express yourself. One should always be able to express what they're thinking and feeling, but you need healthy boundaries so ones not either overreacting or underreacting. I say what I say not to be a loud mouth smartace, I do it cuz I want to see more people willing to be listening, reasoning, and feeling towards change for the better. I don't really want to do harm, I want to always be learning, understanding, coping, teaching, repeat. I only address issues do they can be worked out in positive direction, as well build my own knowledge & understanding further. 

    1.  tl;dr

    2. The derps who RoH'd over a raid talking about overreacting :lol:

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  6. 16 hours ago, Marshall1892 said:

    Effective March 8, 2021, the Special Antarctic Alliance has declared its existence.

    Currently created and led by two epic people, President Marshall and the most epic Vice President Mr. Long Dong!

    Be scared Orbis the SSA will slowly take over the world with its policy of armed neutrality.

    The Special Antarctic Alliances plans to do the generic alliance things like guidance to new players, loans and grants, protection from raiders and government ranks.

    So if you want to join us for some reason you can get the in-game alliance link here and the discord link here. We'd be happy to have you in the discord server as a alliance member or as a random person.

    So thank you for reading this and have a good night.

     

    Why is your name [S]pecial [A]ntarctic [A]lliance, but you talk about [S][S][A] taking over the world?  Anyway, good luck o/

  7. 29 minutes ago, Avatar Patrick said:

    To play devil's advocate, 2 of the wars are ordinary and 1 is attrition plus the war declaration messages would suggest it's not simply a raid.

    Valid criticism, I haven't actually actively fought or commanded since Dial Up, telling people to pick a war type was a bit of an oversight.  And Havgle is 🤪 in general sometimes, note: him attacking before the rest of us were even ready >.<

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