Your goals are very ambitious, Imperator Vorenius! Who knows, in time you might become the leader of your own alliance...
My personal goals are more modest:
1. Do something every day-- check in to monitor, maintain, and grow my nation (and build new cities when I can).
2. Do as advised by alliance leaders, in order to strengthen my alliance. It has helped me grow by offering grants for cities and projects in exchange for high taxes.
3. In times of war, follow instructions about how and when to contribute to the war effort in support of my alliance.
I rarely visit the forum, and I'm clearly not a "hardcore" player.
Lycka till och ha kul!