It was fine not defending Cata, if you knew about Eclipse planning to defend Midgard.
But you didnt mention it in DMs in any way. So you didnt knew about it. It was not part of defensive actions and Eclipse attack is clearly aggressive attack that is not forced by any treaties.
Or you knew about Eclipse being ready to go in but didnt say your ally about it?
My thoughts about this
Pretty ironic that MysOasis was rolled by Sindy for trying to defend from Clock and now Sindy signs with HW for same reason. Are you really afraid of Clock?
Rose doesnt want to get rolled twice, so they asked daddy to protect them?