That's funny coming from you bud.
I lost two communities to this war. Valinor had to disband and then CoS Disbanded when it became apparent there were only 5 of us fighting any more. So we got out and decided to move on with our lives outside of this dumb war. Like many other alliances. Including yours, I believe? We didn't have to beg goons for a treaty, just like we didn't have to beg for a treaty from Rose, or Heaven's Gate. Most of us are well liked and our leader is about 50x the person you think you are.
Unlike some on Col A side, which saw us paying reps as a chance to try and drag us back in by trying to get the coalition to let them hit us because we paid those reps. Real fricking noble from the Moral Highroad people.
Also, hows paying those debts you owe back going? Still paying people to hit RnR because you don't want to pay them?