I don't think you understand what's going on, deleting is completely voluntary atm, people are allowed and even encouraged to stay and fight for a while, at least in the GoG. Afaik we're not putting pressure on other alliances to disband.
Sadly, most of our nations are either deleted already, will be deleted soon, or have moved to other alliances. The spirt lives within the community, don't worry.
Did you take a loan during war to build a new city..... You're going to have to pay that back you know... Because Horizon is actually a good bank, unlike this "aiyr bank".