I seriously don't see what your problem is. If you want to put it on Youtube then you can do that with or without being the moderator of the debate. It's hardly unfair to ask that the moderation of the debate be neutral to both parties. You're the one making it hostile to yourself by insisting on unreasonable terms in your favor.
These shenanigans are why people are 'hostile to you', you know. You had a shot at defending your actions, but now you're undermining your own arguments by being petty.