We have a nation here intentionally skirting the rules to dec on a (fellow compatriot) nation with the intent to do who knows what. Screenshots attached and dm'ed you (Alex) in-game with the proof. Direct war link here: https://politicsandwar.com/nation/war/timeline/war=1957032
The word you are looking for is pyrrhic. A pyrrhic victory is the best case scenario here for TCM getting their butts punched in by a gaggle of micros.
Once upon a time that was called a "love-hate relationship." I suppose on pnw nowadays it really means "I'm an edgelord ha ha look at me."
2014 was a long, long time ago.